What can I do if this is happening to someone I know?
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Signs of Honour Based Abuse
If you suspect honour-based abuse could be happening to someone you know it is important, you know what to look out for. Below are some of the signs to be aware of.
- Sudden changes in behaviour – is the person acting withdrawn or upset
- Excessive control or monitoring by family members – movements being excessively controlled, having their technology withdrawn or social media monitored
- Fear of upcoming trips abroad
- Reluctance to discuss family matters
- Unexplained absences – poor attendance or performance at school or work
- Withdrawal – depression, self-harm or attempted suicide.
- Evidence of physical abuse or trauma
- Rumours/ concerns
If you are concerned about any person’s immediate welfare you must report the matter straightaway. This can be to the police or to someone in authority, i.e. a teacher.
Report it
Always dial 999 in an emergency.
Reporting by phone – 101 for non-emergencies (0300 426 0101 if calling from out with the UK. Network charges may apply).
Online – for issues of a non-serious nature use our Contact Us form
In Person – Find your local Police Stations and check the Public Counter opening hours
Text Relay – 18001101 for deaf, deafened, hard of hearing or speech-impaired callers.
Support for British Sign Language users/speakers
In writing – to PO BOX 2460, Dalmarnock, Glasgow G40 9BA
We provide interpretation services for people who do not speak English.
Partners and other organisations who can help
Honour-based Abuse | Safeguarding Network