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Is honour based abuse happening to you?

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Have you been threatened or abused if you've tried to:

  • have a relationship or marry someone outside your community or someone within your community that your family don't approve of
  • separate or divorce
  • talk to certain people
  • have sex before marriage
  • become pregnant or give birth outside of marriage
  • wear clothes your family or community think are inappropriate
  • use drugs or alcohol
  • access higher education 
  • challenge what your family or community expect of you
  • disagree with the religion of your family or community

People who carry out honour-based abuse are often close family members but also extended family or community members. 

Types of honour-based abuse

There isn't a specific crime of honour-based abuse. It can involve a range of crimes and behaviours, such as: 

  • forced marriage
  • domestic abuse (physical, sexual, psychological, emotional or financial)
  • sexual harassment and sexual violence (rape and sexual assault or the threat of)
  • threats to kill, physical and emotional violence and murder
  • pressure to go or move abroad
  • being kept at home with no freedom
  • not allowed to use the telephone, internet, or have access to important documents like your passport or birth certificate
  • isolation from friends and members of your own family

Report it

Always dial 999 in an emergency.

Reporting by phone – 101 for non-emergencies 0300 426 0101 if calling from out with the UK.  Network charges may apply.

Online – for issues of a non-serious nature use our Contact Us form

In Person – Find your local Police Stations and check the Public Counter opening hours

Text Relay – 18001101 for deaf, deafened, hard of hearing or speech-impaired callers.

Support for British Sign Language users/speakers

In writing – to PO BOX 2460, Dalmarnock, Glasgow G40 9BA 

We provide interpretation services for people who do not speak English.

Partners and other organisations who can help

Karma Nirvana

Honour-based Abuse | Safeguarding Network

Scottish Women's Aid

Shakti Women's Aid

Hemat Gryffe