Lorraine's story: Account of a wife following husband's CSA charge and arrest

"My whole world came crashing down the day the police knocked on my door.

I was arrested, along with my son and husband.

Illegal sexual images of children had been viewed at my house.

There must have been a mistake.

Surely, my husband or son were incapable of committing such a horrible crime.

After a day of being interviewed by the police, my son and I were released.

It was my husband who had committed the offence.

I was horrified. I sobbed uncontrollably and thought I would vomit.

The police gave me a leaflet about Stop It Now! Scotland’s services.

I’m glad I called them.

Without them, I would not have been able to cope.

They provided moral support and advice to help me recover.

I lost so much that day - life would never be the same again for me, my son, or my husband.

Stop It Now! provided me with hope and a path to recovery."

Viewing indecent images of children or engaging in online grooming is a serious crime with significant consequences for the offender, as well as their families and friends.

If you are a family member affected by the arrest of a loved one or are concerned about someone you know, call Stop It Now! Scotland  for support and guidance.